Of course there has been no greater challenge in my life than being transgender and eventually accepting and choosing to transition. I was shunned from most of my family, lost tons of friends and all my work as a former professional solar contractor and business owner. I became a rafter for abuse, attacks and attempted rapes in my local area and only through great perseverance and a strong sense of self have I been able to survive to this point where I am so happily fulfilled as a legal woman and shemale.
Yes. I've always known I wanted to do this work. I've always had the capacity to love more than one person and to accept people for their soul and not their outward appearance. I've also always been desired by both men and women and being submissive I've always responded to their call.
I've learned that it's not how hard or how far you fall but how well or how high you rise that matters. Mistakes are guaranteed like change and only the malleable mind and open soul can possibly master the honesty and selflessness necessary for growth.
Forgiveness and compassion is the only way I've learned to accept my failures and those of others. I learned that communication is crucial and you can't receive what you haven't asked for.